You'll hear a lot about detachment on this board. Detachment means to let go emotionally. Continue working on improving yourself, not as a way to get your wife's attention but to be a better person. To detach means we realize we are powerless over others and their decisions.

Not easy but necessary.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss