David, I appologize, but I'm going to have to defer to Bond, Cadet, or anyone else who can come along and help you.
While I've had a chance to be around and talk to people over X-mas eve and Christmas day... I'm struggling, to some degree...
I think I'm going to have to bow out from posting here for a while.
The reality is, from what you have written, I'd have to say it doesn't sound to me like you're piecing, now. Even though your W is saying she wants to work it out. If I was in your shoes, I'd turn and walk...
But that's me... and I worry that my responses now, especially in your sitch which could very well work out, might steer you wrong.
I wish you the best and at this point I'd say "Don't give up, hold on the D, and work through this. Give it one more, real hard shot, even if you are questioning your W's intention, commitment, and words."
