You may not believe me, but if you keep doing the stuff everyone says, you will feel better. I keep practicing the detaching, not arguing but validating his feelings, keeping the road back smooth, Getting A Life, and most of all listening when he talks. The last is the hardest for me because my H doesn't talk much.
Keep doing the right thing. Like you have been. It is like erosion, you might not see the results right away!
I also think you should not help her divorce you. But if she starts filing papers, protect yourself legally.
Take Care and Stay Strong!
Wendy
Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32 D final 9/12 Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!
