Sure thing. I believe my wife feels that she has been a single mom at times because of my long work hours. I coach a lot of teams and this leads me to be gone at night as well as during the regular work day.

I didn't know what to do during the deaths so i just gave her space to do her thing but I was present and available for her if she needed me.

I do believe the deaths and her Lupus and leg injury have colored her world a bit gray when it comes to our R. She tells me she worked on our marriage for three years but all I saw was her focusing on the kids, work and going back to school to get her Masters degree which has led her to working on her doctoral degree currently.

My 180 as of recently has been to spend as much time with the kids as possible as there are times in the year that it just isn't possible due to my coaching.

GAL since she dropped the news on me has been with my kids as well as getting back into touch with some of my old friends who I have lost touch with since we were married


M40
W33
S5
D3
Together 10
Married 6
Bomb 12/8/11
Filed 12/27/11
Moved out 1/2/12