Thanks for all the support everyone. My PMA isn't always as strong as I'd like it to be. I know I do well in front of her, but I must admit, when she isn't around, more than even before, I can't get her out of my mind. No matter what I am doing and how much I GAL. I said it before, I feel like a teenager in love. I still have my breakdowns and cry once in a while. I just have to have faith and when she is around I have to "Be prepared" (you like that Crimson?) All the advice here has helped so much, and like the books say you have to choose which methods or combination of methods suit you best. Most of what I do, (besides listen and validate) is read her body language and facial expressions and go from there. I almost feel like a therapist! I really wish I had known how to really talk to her years ago. I have always known how to communicate what I want and what I needed, but never really LISTENED, and now I am seeing how she is responding, and I love it. I can only imagine what it would be like if she were still in love with me.


M 33
W 29
S 4
M 5
T 7
11/7/11 Separation, W moves in with parents
12/1/11 W: "IDLY, I'm not coming back, it's over"
1/7/12 D Bomb Dropped