Thank you for your posts. Maybe the Holidays do bring out the sentiments. All I know is that life goes on and I must continue my journey without ex. Today was very unexpected like yours Marie, but it could mean absolutely nothing. Even if it meant that Ex was attempting to reconcile then that brings a whole other set of problems.
I am hopeful toward my future whatever that is. I will however never be in that very dark place I was pre and post bomb. I feel grateful that I was able to see a glimpse of my old H. That was a blessing....
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11