Thanks BklynMom, great suggestion. The thing is I may not get her to MC again (still trying to get her to go once more with me), is their another way or time to say what you suggested: "I have always been very attracted to my W so its been really hard not being intimate with her". I do think if we were to have sex we would really connect again, which is why I think she is being very cautious with it.
M 33 W 29 S 4 M 5 T 7 11/7/11 Separation, W moves in with parents 12/1/11 W: "IDLY, I'm not coming back, it's over" 1/7/12 D Bomb Dropped