Definitely do not confront him our other W about their apparent relationship but do use this information to your advantage. Just brainstorming but if the other W is a mutual friend can you tell her how sad your kids are that you & H were not together over the holidays. It may be possible to get the OW to stop the R without confronting her. Even if they are "just friends" it does seem like they are inappropriately close right now.

I would also make sure this POW only sees your good side and you act like a real lady in front of her. I think you can put some guilt onto her.

Regarding email to C. I think you should take some of his points, the ones you can address & leave the rest. If he doesnt like what you wear to bed, change it and buy something new as a holiday gift to yourself that he may find sexy. Always wear makeup & look your best around him, let him see you are not falling apart put keeping it together.

You are doing great. I believe he will wake up and see a strong beautiful woman bravely fighting a sickness while raising two kids. Hang in there.


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13