I have listened at times and offered absolutely no solution; but when pushes me, I respond and that is what is NOT working. He always wants to know what I think, what I think we should do. How do I not offer my opinion when he pushes for it?
I don't want him to turn to another woman. I want my M; As you said, I need to dig for a deeper understanding and patience while he works this through. Why do I feel that we LBS have to prove to ourselves and our spouses before or even if they ever begin to want to re-stablish relationships with their loved ones? I have to admit, it was much easier to deal with things when he was not at home.
Since I have calmed down today and not seeing things from just my perspective, I stepped back and I am trying to enjoy my evening.
I am still here and with fighting for me.
OLD THREAD-http://tinyurl.com/y98nuty Me 44 H 51 T 15 yrs M 9+ yrs No Kids "You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."
