Together since we were 15.

[Jenna333]

Thanks for sharing that. He tearfully told me he actually had to restrain himself from becoming emotional during. It seems that he is very confused, but feels that this separation is the right thing to do. I did not initiate the sex, and I won't at all while we're apart. I have actually had to scoot away from him on the couch, etc, because he's been so flirty with me the past week. I'm not sure if I should oblige if he initiates again. I'm not as upset as I feared I would be after the fact. If there is a chance that it could get him to realize how much we have together, I don't see why I should see it as such a bad thing to do. Time will tell, I suppose. He may come over today to see the kids. I guess I will have to see how his behavior towards me is today.

I don't like the idea of being used simply because he's in the mood, but I could tell that it was not 'just' sex to him. I think his emotions surprised him.