RE: "....emotional maturity of a 6 year old." I KNOW! I was thinking myself this morning that I've known my H for so long and I know everything about him.....and yet the A just showed a very dark and immature side of him that I had no idea existed. I don't think he knew it existed either.

Had an interesting convo with someone at a party the other night. We were talking about someone in our community who was upwardly upstanding. I mean this guy had it all. Success, looks, business, kids, wife...But as a teen had been into drugs. He was sober for years and years. Then stress hit and he started drinking and drugging again. He lost everything and I do mean EVERY THING. The person I spoke to said something to the effect, "That's an example of your addiction doing push-ups while you think you are sober....they start using again and it comes back with a vengeance." I've been pondering this. It's a little scary. Unless they really do the work, it only goes underground. I'm now convinced of that.


M 55 H 58 M 24 T 29
S 22,21, 19
Bomb 4/10
It (A) really isn't about you 11/2013
We all have work to do


The truth will set you free, but it will almost kill you first.