Hey DC, I still think slow and steady wins the race. And, I think she put it off on the kids as to whether or not she came over, because SHE really wanted to come, but why admit it?
I am glad you had a nice Christmas with the kids, and with the whole family for awhile last night. I am sure it was rather bittersweet.
You know, there is still lots of hope for you and your W. I think so, anyway. Just try to stick to the DB principles, and know that they DO work. I was supposed to be heading for D by last year, and I really believe that a combination of naturally knowing some of what NOT to do, and finding this site, and finding out what else not to do and what TO do, helped my situation immeasurably. Acting as if, was a big help for me.