Thanks for posting Labug I have been really struggling with GALing. I need to pick up the book about co-dependency that several people have mentioned. I never wanted to go out and get a life of my own and I wanted to be with my W all the time which obviously smothered her.

The few times that I have gone out and done something with the only 2 people that I know here it has made me sad because I wasn't sharing the experience with my W. Hopefully these feelings will start to dissipate soon (can you say co-dependent??)

Thanks again for posting and sharing your insight!


M:(f) 35
W: 45
3 dogs and 2 cats
T: 9 years
9/30/11 I love you, but I'm not in love with you
OW confirmed 12/23/11