One last thing....I have been a huge pushover in our marriage. I am reading a book titled "No More Mr Nice Guy" and realized how weak of a man I was. I'm really serious about this being our last chance with this marriage. I am willing to take the time and work necessary to work it out. However, I'm not willing to deal with the cheating and other BS.
I received some advice from my personal counselor. She stated that I should file for divorce. We can always call it off. I am starting to agree with her. If it's going to be this way, then I want out. This would get the ball rolling and hopefully she will realize I'm not always going to be here....because I'm not. If it works out, we will call it off. If it doesn't then we sign the papers and be done with it. Should I do this or approach her about this? I think she feels that I'm going to be here no matter what and that I'll bend over backwards to please her. That's not the case anymore.
