To make things worse, I have faith in her to the point that I believe she *can* address these issues. I believe that if she works on her anger and self esteem, she will be a happier and more fulfilled person with or without me, and I do want that for her, from a very sincere place of love.
She can but she doesn't want to for whatever reason. Expectations, my friend, expectations. You can't make her want to change, you can't control her. What can you control? What is your boundary here? What are you willing to accept? Take emotion out of it and write it in a simple statement.
When you ________ I feel _________. I want ________.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
