First post, words of wisdom needed

[sunshine76]

Hey 2thepoint, thank you so much for responding and giving me advice!

You are absolutely correct that Purgatory gave me amazing advice on how to handle W's homecoming and I am 100% commited to following her advice.

I am going to continue being upbeat, lighthearted, funny... but I am also going to throw some mystery in there. When this all started she told me that she wanted me to date other people (I was appauled) now I know it was so that she could feel better about what she was doing. Well I am certainly not going to date anyone, but that doesn't mean that I can't get dressed up nicely, walk out the door and let her mind think whatever it wants. Maybe in the future she will think twice before telling her partner that she wants them to date other people. I have to admit that I am nervous that creating a little mystery is going to backfire on me, but I don't have much more to lose so I guess it's really not that risky.

Thanks again 2the point. I hope that you are hanging in there. I am going to swing by your thread and check in on you.