First post, words of wisdom needed

[2thepoint]

Hey Sunshne - it has been said here that your smallest most consistent 180's are the ones that get noticed. So, if you have tried some 180's that you can't stick with, then best to drop those in favor of others.

Also, 180's aren't the only remedy. Those along with other things like getting a life and a positive mental attitude are what make you the most attractive. Of course if there are certain behaviors of yours that are really dragging your R down then you have to fix those.

But bottom line, work on the 180's but only do the ones that work. Also, whatever you are trying, make sure you have given enough time for the changes to set before abandoning them because you think they aren't working. If something isn't working, try something else.

I do think as a previous poster has stated, you should not be at home when W gets there. Have a plan and stick to it. Check out "meetup" on the internet for an activity that interests you on the day W gets home and go do it!