Just be yourself. Live your life as you have been doing. Talk is cheap...let's see if he can do the walk. Allow him to do the work and make the appointments. Do not try to "mother" him.
BTW, I'm glad you and the children had a wonderful cruise. You needed the break!
Happy Holidays!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
