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Banned: "Lips of an Angel" by Hinder

H and OW burst into song together singing in the car and that is how I busted their asses. I said: Are you two f-------- kidding me?"

My anthem righ now: "Holding on to What I Haven't Got" by Linkin Park. Maybe it should be banned.

And it seems many Christmas songs are sad. And pretty much ALL country......

Maybe we hear sad when we are sad?

There is a song called "This Place Su---" by The Queers. 57 seconds long. I dare anyone who is sad to play it 10 times in a row and not end up laughing!

Merry Christmas!

Great Thread!


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Speaks "25 to life" by Eminem.

I also like his song "Kim".

Both make me cry but in a good way!


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love this thread! lifting my spirits just thinking about it!

banned.. kelly clarkson - already gone

speaks to me.. the perishers - sway


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speaks AND banned - U2 - Sweetest thing... Original version

ugh... who's got a box of tissues?

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My W and I used to laugh about "Lips of An Angel," calling it the "A-Hole Song"...how ironic that she ended up in the same situation as the narrator. :P

I really got into B.B. King during my sitch. Seems like every other song of his is about a bad break-up or a cheating lover, or both. Yet he never wallows in his pain -- he just expresses it in that soulful voice of his. He's in his eighties and he can still rock the house. smile


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T: 5.5 yrs
M: 2 yrs
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I don't have a song to ban but this one really speaks to me and my sitch:

Always On My Mind - (Willie Nelson version)

Songwriters: Thompson, Wayne Carson; Christopher, Johnny; James, Mark;

Maybe I didn't love you
Quite as often as I could have
Maybe I didn't treat you
Quite as good as I should have

If I made you feel second best
Girl I'm sorry I was blind
You were always on my mind
You were always on my mind

Maybe I didn't hold you
All those lonely, lonely times
And I guess I never told you
I'm so happy that you're mine

Little things I should have said and done
I just never took the time
You were always on my mind
You were always on my mind

Tell me
Tell me that your sweet love hasn't died
And give me
Give me one more chance to keep you satisfied
I'll keep you satisfied

Little things I should have said and done
I just never took the time
You were always on my mind
You were always on my mind

You were always on my mind
You were always on my mind


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good choice 2,

I suggest NO LBSer listen to "I Can't Make You Love Me" for a solid year...

Other nominees would be "If You Leave Me Now",

"Breaking Up is Hard to Do"

"Can't Live, IF living is without You"

Several Linda Ronstadt songs come to mind.


"You're No Good", "Faithless Love", & "I It Doesn't Matter Anymore"...

Bob Dylan's

"It Ain't Me, Babe"

"One More Cup of Coffee" and "I Threw it All Away"

Neil Young's


"Only Love Can Break Your Heart" and "Helpless"

Garth Brooks/Billy Joel's "SHameless" is a passionate sad one..


Alternatively you DO listen to these songs, turn lights down low and light some candles and go with it...GRIEVE

and cry your eyes out and THEN after awhile...a couple hours at most...you

SNAP OUT OF IT!

Or not...

Have a peaceful holiday and force yourself to watch a comedy if you're feeling super low. OR get some sleep.

Rest is under rated and much needed...

Blessings!


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PS

Listen to Adele's "Someone Like You" if you want a painful passionate and REAL song --

a song that tells you the singer has been INSIDE a sad situation


AND she survived it...like we all can.


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Originally Posted By: workinghardguy
Maybe because I'm feeling a little sorry for myself tonight... I thought it might be fun to start a thread and see what songs people absolutely want banned from the radio/internet because they just rip open the feelings about our sitches too much...

... OR... what songs really speak to you right now...

I'll start:
For the bannation list: "Someone Like You" by Adele

Just heard this today for the first time...DAMN....she has been there WHG and she came out...and she's alright.


Speaks to me right now: "Breakfast at Tiffany's" by Deep Blue Something


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*2016*
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Love, love, love Shameless. I'm going to listen to it right now!


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss
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