First post, words of wisdom needed

[sunshine76]

Journal:

I wasn't expecting wife to text today (just really hoping that she would). Needless to say she did not.

I truly do not understand why?? I know that she is with the OW, but we were getting along great before she left.

I gave up going to see my family for the holidays because she asked me to watch the dogs so she could spend christmas with her "mom".

I have been working on myself. I am no longer moody, I joke around with her, I do all of the cleaning, I have done her laundry on many occasions because she has been working late, I waited on her hand and foot when she was sick. I thought I was doing good because she was responding positively, but I guess not. I honestly don't know what my 180's should be when she gets back?? I had no idea that she had it in her to be this cold.