CO - I always look forward to your updates. In an odd sense, and I think I've mentioned this before, I see some parallels in our respective situations. I just think you are several months out in front of me. It seems things are going better for you, so I would HOPE you are a few months out in front of me.
As mentioned in my thread, I said "Merry Christmas, hon" to my W at noon when she was dropping of S. She didn't say it bak and isn't make a lot of eye contact. It felt weird - and certainly didn't mean it as a romantic gesture. Nor was it expressed as such. Guess she just didn't know what to say. I say that to say me asking for a quickie PROBABLY would have resulted in my taking a boot to the pills.
Keep up the good work, CO. I am pulling for you, your wife and your son. In the meantime - let's both keep working on strengthening our bond with out little boys.