Confused and alone

[BklynMom]

I agree with purgatory that with regard to your S - you need to protect him and your H angry behavior towards him is distrubing.

I think it is a good sign that your H is interested in seeing a C however I dont think its a good idea for him to go to a any C, especially one that may be pro-divorce. If you think this C may be pro divorce I would not encourage it.

My H and I went to MCs (a husband & wife team) and my H had an individual C shortly after ILYBNILWY. All of these quacks supported my H conviction that if you are unhappy in your M and feel that you are not your fully actualized self you should get a D, - the kids are better off with 2 happy, fully actualized parents who are divorced than a couple where one person is not fully actualized. (It still sound shocking to me that they actually said this.) This type of C really was a big step backwards. It really reinforced my H distorted views on our R. Be careful. For me most friends & family (including his) had a more pro-M approach

Hang in there unfortunately this will take longer than you want