First off, Merry Christmas to everyone, I hope everyone is having the best holiday season as they can! Ok update on past couple of days: W and I have continued normal routine. The other day she gave me $40 for gas money that she used from our account, I told her she didn't have to pay me back, but thanked her and accepted the money. I left in on the counter went to work and returned from work and it was gone. Today I found out she took it because S was playing with the money, and she said she would bring the money with her tomorrow when she comes to watch S while I am at work. Last night I picked up S from her parents house while she was at work and took him to my dads house. I told MIL I would have him back around 7 pm. She was glad because she wanted to bake cookies with him. Well W called me and left message asking me if I wanted to keep S for night and to call her back. Of coarse I said Yes, and asked her if she was going out. She said yes. She said I sounded mad, (not sure if I was) I told her I was just exhausted (which I know I was). As for today, she showed up with S after I got home from work and WOW did she look amazing. I complimented her, she thanked me. I noticed she was wearing pretty much all new clothes and boots and complimented her again saying she REALLY looked good, and told her I noticed her new clothes. Again she thanked me and she said she was tired of 2 of her sisters showing up at her grandparents house dressed up and her not. She stayed to watch S open presents and mentioned she forgot my gift from S at her mom's house and she would bring that in the morning also. I gave her her present which included the card (I know, I probably shouldn't have given the card, but did anyway). She thanked me and told me I didn't need to get her anything, I said I know, but I wanted to. She stayed a little longer to help try and fix my computer, which she couldn't finish and she said she would work on it more in the morning. She then asked if I wanted S for the night, or if she wanted me to have her take him. I told her I wanted him for the night. As she was leaving I took a big gamble and asked her if she would think about a "Holiday Quickie". She smiled and laughed and said she would think about it. When she left I noticed she forgot her present I got her and quickly called her, she said for me to set it aside for her in the morning because the socks would really come in handy. She seemed like she was in a really good mood and she said she would see me in the morning "bright and early". Overall the last couple of days the conversations were all decent, nothing negative. I only asked her about sex because I noticed she has been using her "toy" that she still has at the house, plus I figured if I call it something funny regardless of her answer, their shouldn't be any negatives from it. I will have to wait to see how she reacts to me in them morning. Well I am off to enjoy the rest of night with S. Merry Christmas again!
M 33 W 29 S 4 M 5 T 7 11/7/11 Separation, W moves in with parents 12/1/11 W: "IDLY, I'm not coming back, it's over" 1/7/12 D Bomb Dropped