Ok - Lets put Xmas 2011 down as one of the worst I've experienced.

W was working last night - I hear her car pull in, I look out of the window and there are actually two cars.

A guy gets out of W's car and W gets out of the passenger seat.
W then comes in the house - other guy gets in second car and they drive off.

D9 was awake - so I went to her bedroom to comfort her and try to get her back to sleep - also to avoid confrontation with W.

I get up and W is in bed, but the girls stockings are not done - my W always does the stockings when she gets home from work and actually got mad at me one year for doing them while she was at work.

So I wake my W - she's quite clearly a little worse for wear and is holding her iPhone in her hand. I get mad - why aren't the stockings done, why does she have her iPhone in her hand, who dropped her off....

She denied anyone dropping her off - I told her I saw them, she said I was imagining things.. I mean really - outright lying....

I grabbed all the girls stocking things - made up the stockings and sat and had a beer watching late-night rubish...

Went to bed - W asleep, girls wake up and we go down to open stockings. Nothing said by either of us. Her family arrived soon after and we've been "cordial" to each other - but nothing more..

I really don't know who she has turned into - I really don't know whether I am willing to put up with this anymore, I think I've reached my limit....


M47
W45
D10 (Has CP)
D7
M12 T14
ILYBINILWY 5/1/11
Asked for seperation 5/10/11
Seriously DBing 7/1/11
W admitted to 2 EA's on 11/3/11.
Evidence of PA 11/5/11 - Definite evidence of PA 11/20/11
D - Final 7/11/12