First post, words of wisdom needed

[sunshine76]

Thanks you so much for posting Kaffe. Your right this is about her. I don't want this R to end and if it was up to me I would leave the clothes there and move back into the room, but let's face it that is not happening anytime soon if ever.

I know that the only feeling she will have by me emptying out the closet is a sense of relief. I have been hanging onto to this relationship with every ounce of my being and it is taking a horrible toll on me.

Everybody here says that actions speak louder than words and that you should fake it until you make it. Right now I am admittedly faking it, but hopefully she will not be able to see through me. The message that I want to get across to her is that yes I understand that you have moved on (even though she doesn't know that I know about OW) and I am no longer going to try to stand in your way.

Hopefully someday in the near future I will be able to make decisions like this because it is what I want to do and because it makes me feel good, but I am not there yet.

Oh well, I guess I should get back to cleaning the closet out...

Thanks again Kaffe