I haven't been here in a loooooong time. Most of you probably do not know me, but some will probably remember me. I chose to step away from this forum site a long time ago as it was holding me back from moving on with my life. I needed to take my focus elsewhere. However, that does not mean I am not grateful to everyone that has helped me. This forum was a great life saver to me when I needed it the most. I just knew it was time to move on.
I just wanted to wish everyone here a Merry Christmas.
For those of you who are who are new here are going through a painful separation/divorce, I hope you find peace during this time.
I promise you, it does get better. I have been divorced for a few years now and I am happy with my life. I used to think I would never survive if I did not "win" my husband back, but I did. In fact, I am a stronger person because of it. I have many other blessings in my life that I concentrate on. My ex is just a memory to me, one that I choose to leave in the pass. Please just focus on yourself and leave your spouses/exes to focus on theirs.