yes, Rick - keep in mind how much you are learning about yourself as this whole sukky process plays out. Knowing what you are doing that is not helpful is a great place to be. The hardest thing for me is not to open my big fat mouth. This is SO hard and i'm glad we can be here for each other. enjoy enjoy enjoy D on Xmas day and have a wonderful peaceful day. smile

HUGS!!!!!!!!


Me (f): 45
W(f) 35
T: 13 y
C: S4 adopted at birth
6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up
8-28-11 OW confirmed