I've done great as far as a 180. He has been shocked at my changes. Today he told me That OW did go on the trip with him. I said everything I shouldn't but in the end told him that if he was going to continue a relationship with her then I cannot see him. This would mean dividing our son 3days then 4days and since I don't want to see him he would only see our daughter when he drops off and picks up our son. I said we can go back to the way the we're if you weren't with her but you are. I said I need to distance myself and take care of myself so I can take care of my kids. He was very shaken up about this. I said I know it will compromise your relationship with your daughter but I need to heal.
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017
