Curve balls? Heck, I don't even play softball!!!

[sunshine76]

I simply cannot sit here and be all 'sunshine and freaking roses" when she tells me she's spending xmas eve with OW's family NOT her own SON.

Aww IS I am so sorry!!! Talk about being sh!tty. Your son is so lucky to have you in his life because it sounds like that is where he is getting most of his stability and love at this point. I'm not trying to say that your W is a bad mother, but right now it doesn't sounds like she is acting in the best interest of your son. I totally sux at DBing so don't listen to any advice that I give you, but I don't think you need to be sunshine and roses around her. I guess we need to learn to act indiffrent towards them, but once again I stink at this. I am really working on it, but let's just say it is not one of my strengths.

LOL it had to make you feel good that the OW is not very attractive. I found a picture of my W's OW and all I could think is good lord I hope she is rich.

I really wish that the holidays were turning out better for you. Maybe it will help to picture your son unwrapping his bike and knowing that you are going to be there to teach him to ride it. I know that I am grasping at straws, but I'm having a tuff time thinking of positive things today as well.

I am sending positive,happy and cynical thoughts your way