But can you be at peace and still feel remorse for for wrong things that you did? Even though you've forgiven yourself for the wrong things you did?

I want to "live and let live and be unattached to past hurts...", I just seem to be struggling.

"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.