Pampering yourself is number one today. Go to the party and have a great time, whether you like the hostess or not. It's about getting out, meeting people and relaxing.
Remember...live your life as best you can and allow your h the time to figure things out. Depression doesn't happen over night, nor does it end quickly. He will have to figure this out for himself...you can't help him, except to be a friend and have no expectations about what he does or doesn't do at this time.
Merry Christmas!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
