Abusive - situation out of control.

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HerbGarden...
Go to the bookstore and buy the book 'Love Without Hurt' by Steven Stosny. It will not only shed some light on why you behave the way you do, it will also help you to stop being that way. I was angry, resentful, and emotionally abusive for my entire adult life. It caused huge problems for me and those that I cared about the most. I wish I had known about this information before my marriage had been destroyed. You have an opportunity to. Nonetheless, I learned a great deal and was able to use this new knowledge to make some necessary changes that I wish I'd made long before. I can say that this book, and the knowledge base that comes with it, is one of the single best things to happen in my entire life. Good luck.