You have already asked for forgiveness. That is enough. Now it seems she hates you in direct proportion to how much it bothers you. If you can at least fake that its not really concerning you anymore than maybe it will eventually die on her side as well. If it doesn't she is probably being really irrational about her hatred. I know the less I engage my ex the better I feel. I wasn't the most fabulous wife but I also didn't expect him to bail without trying and start a relationship with someone else. He seemed angry with me but I refuse to go there anymore. Anytime I did it esculated. Now that I don't its already better, not great but better. I don't feel as bad and we don't have any sort of confrontation. I just try to stick to the facts with him. I still vent to family and friends but even that is less than it was. The relationship is over and I am working very hard to cut my losses. Whether he forgives me or not is irrelevant.
