2thepoint, I just wanted to thank you so much. You have no idea how much your words of encouragement, advice and insight mean.

I really don't know what I would have done without everyone on this board. Actually, I know what I would have done. I would have totally flown off the handle and confronted my wife which in turn would have led to her kicking me out of the house and pushing her straight into the arms of the OW. So thank you all so much for sharing your stories and advice.

Purgatory, your post made me smile (I am a sucker for cheesy lines). You also always have a way of always giving me hope which I desperatly need right now!!! Thank you smile


M:(f) 35
W: 45
3 dogs and 2 cats
T: 9 years
9/30/11 I love you, but I'm not in love with you
OW confirmed 12/23/11