I've always wondered what it would be like to run into XH and OW and just look at her and laugh ;-)
IB you are so awesome. I love your speech, and I would probably craft something similar, but everyone is right. The best thing you can ever do is just be dignified and not say a word!!! Face it. No OW can hear a word you say anyway. It's just a little buzz in her head, like a bee stuck in a glass jar (apologies to John Updike whom I stole that from ;-)
M45 Bomb 6/09; EA 6/10; Divorced 1/11 Proud single mom of 7 little feline girls and one little feline boy "Fall down 53 times. Get up 54." -- Zen saying