Believe nothing what you hear and half of what you see. Sure, it's another bomb. Water off a duck's back. You gotta roll with it. It's usually not the bomb we make it to be. Don't let your mind run off on a tangent. Give yourself a break here.
I said this to another but you need to hear this also,
'Be pleasant. Be understanding. Be easy with forgiveness where appropriate. Give the space she needs when asked for. If you get a feel she doesn't want to be around you excuse yourself with no fanfare. Go do your own thing with no muss or fuss. Be a soft place for her to land on. If things get a little tense, excuse yourself politely and go do your own thing for a bit. Go play some pool with a few buddies or something like that. (Sure, ok, if W does get out of sorts and unfair, 'you can be much better when you're not like this to me. Let's come back to this later once we've cooled down, good with you?)'
As a side note, are you writing this down in a journal? Seeing it for what it is on print and working out possible solutions? Step by step even? Get it down where you can see it so it doesn't race around the mind so much. Helps one to be more objective.
I haven't posted much in the last seven years. I've been a lurker. Just lookin' to put back all the good help I've gotten...
