If so, I'll put in a request for one for my W as well. She is SOOOOOOOOOO cold sometimes. It's like they just don't care. After spending (in both our sitches) right around a decade (little more /little less) together, they can erase it all and just......move on!!!!!!

I do indeed think the WAS need to get together and write a book letting us know how to detach - because I can't quite get it!!! My heart is RAW and she doesn't seem to care.

Blah!!! Oh, I did read your sitch Sunshine, and had a nice long post -- then somehow deleted it. Then I was irritated with the computer and didn't want to write it all out again. But I will def post there soon. I like what you said on another thread about hearing a song about your W getting run over by a reindeer. I cracked a smile for the first time today!!! Hilarious. I'd go for that visual myself, throw in OW being dragged by the sleigh, and we've got a winner!! smirk

Hang in there. This is going to be the roughest part of the year.....


Me (f): 45
W(f) 35
T: 13 y
C: S4 adopted at birth
6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up
8-28-11 OW confirmed