I've read up on your posts from the beginning... I feel for ya. You HAVE come to the right place to vent and find encouragement.

Once you read DR, read it again... and again smile It helps you understand why the WAS does what they do and how you can survive the fallout.

I suffered from post-partum depression for 2 years before I was able to receive meds to help (I know your wife doesn't have post-partum... but the outcomes are similar). Mine didn't manifest as crying and ignoring... instead it was rages and controlling. My H stayed with me through it all- even when I threatened D. I felt like there was someone else controlling my moods and actions and I had no choice but to go along with it... completely out of control in my own head. It might not be exactly the same, but I can relate to what your W is going through, and you can pick my brain if you have any questions. (you can check out my long story in 'too little too late' in newcomers)

Enjoy your family trip and happy holidays!!

M-31, H-31
T-9, M-7
S-6, s-20mth
sep 8/1/11
ILYNILWY 11/29/11
Creating separation papers.
Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12
H moves out 1.20.12