I'm in agreement with many here. When my sitch first unfolded, this place was like a haven -- so many people who knew exactly what I was going through and had so much helpful advice! I posted almost every day. After enough time went by, though, I only started posting if something really different happened. You can only be on the boards so much before you start getting too fixated.

Enjoy your life, Val. I'm very glad that you're at the point where you've let God take the reins. You will find happiness wherever you end up -- that's for sure. You're too good of a person not to.


Us: mid-20s
T: 5.5 yrs
M: 2 yrs
S + OM: 6/21/11
Legally S'd: 9/9/11

In this life, you have a limited amount of mental currency. You get what you pay for, so spend it wisely.

So it goes. --Kurt Vonnegut