Abusive - situation out of control.

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I agree with Mishka. Therapy is your best chance at getting to the root of your anger issues. Anger management is fine for trying to control the anger but I don't think it helps you understand the cause and how to manage it and rid it from your relationship with your W.

Were you always angry or only since you been married? I can't imagine your W would be attracted to an angry man. What was your life like before you were married. What makes you truly happy?

Also, looking through some previous posts, it looks like you were given some pretty good advice before. What did you do with that advice other than the anger management?