Christmas is suppose to be a time for family to be together.
And you are... your d and you ARE a family... focus on that.
Just as an aside... last night I was working on the computer, which is in our living room, and the kids were watching some very lame Disney TV series... the one with the twins before they started the series set on a cruise line... Anyway, it was a campy Christmas episode where mom and dad, who are divorced, are snowed into the hotel together and are getting along. The teenage twins get it in their head that mom and dad are getting back together! To save you the campyness... at the end a baby is born to some other woman and one of the twins is sad because his family isn't like the baby's family. The twins' dad pipes up that yes it is... because that baby has two parents who love him just like the twins do, even if mom and dad don't live together.
So yes... at that point I wanted to vomit because of the acting and plotline, but I begrudgingly have to admit they had a point.
Married 6 together 8 Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both SS12, SD10, S6 Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann) W moved out: 2/18/12 D final: 11/12/12 Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD