Christmas Etiquette

[2thepoint]

You may want to be real careful here. In my sitch, my W has made it perfectly clear that she does not want a gift from me, not even a card. I guess it is just too much of a reminder of the pain, guilt or whatever she is feeling.

I had planned on creating something with the kids that I know she would love but have decided not to give it to her for fear she would interpret it as going against her request for no gifts.

So, not real clear on the dynamics of your particular sitch, but anything that even hints of pursuit might backfire.

Just be careful!