(((Pur))) Difficult news. Meds and therapy is good news and things change all the time as far as treatment options. Scream, cry and stomp your feet for awhile. Then figure out what you need to do for you.
As far as H seeming a little unconcerned initially, I think most men process differently than most women. They have to think about things and then when it's nothing they can fix, they don't know what to do. I believe they also keep their emotions in check because they need to appear strong and in control. Don't read too much into any of it.
"Here's my emotional problem, I don't want to get excited that my H showed concern when he called me the second time nor when he cancelled his plans to stay at home with me.... but it does make me feel good. I've been telling myself 'have no expectations!!' then there's that little voice in the back of my head that says: 'see, he still cares. we still have a chance.' "
Don't worry to much about this right now. Take whatever support he's willing to give.
Take care of yourself and Merry Christmas!
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss