Sunshine-- thanks for dropping by. I am going to go read your sitch right now. Yes, the bs we put up with is unbelievable, even as we are doing it. WHY????? I keep asking myself. Then I look at my beautiful little S and say, 'oh yeah, he needs us both.' It's easier to cut and run, harder to make the changes. Sunshine, I'm glad you are here, but sorry as well....


JB ---buddy!!! Thanks also!! I think of you honestly, daily. Keep praying HARD. She's intensifying her hunt for another place, and as much as i think we NEED it, well, you know.... u live it, man. BTW, do you ever hear from ROMB? Since my phone went belly up, and luddite that I can be, i still havent' replaced it, I havent talked to her....I have been avoiding the "alternate universe' for a few weeks also due to my own issues.... (again, we must have lunch, seriously)

Me (f): 45
W(f) 35
T: 13 y
C: S4 adopted at birth
6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up
8-28-11 OW confirmed