Regarding the forgiveness...how do I do that? I mean, in a letter, in a text, e-mail...or do I do it in my mind and heart? Is it a decision I make within myself and then just let it go?
yes it is a decision you make. You let it go and say nothing to her (unless a miracle happens and she asks you for forgiveness)
Forgiveness is a process that begins with a choice and is followed by many more choices... This was a learned skill for me, and it takes more time than I care to recall. SO WORTH IT... How do I get my power back? take it back. Forgiving her means letting go of the power you are now giving her by holding onto the pain you feel...
Ever since i became aware that she left emotionally, which was well before she actually left, I've felt like my personal power was gone. It was gone! I still feel like that. How do I get it back?
where the head goes, the heart will, eventually, follow.
Get your head on straight. Figure out who you are and where you want to be.
Get in touch with the positive attributes in you and be a confident man. Be a man only a fool would leave.
KNOW IT and it'll radiate. You'll begin attracting more goodness in your life and more love
and that's going to help you feel better. The power struggle is your internal one. Take your power back and keep it, OR give it away.
It is up to you and ONLY YOU....
like imagining your life is a novel and you being the author of your life.
Who wrote the last 2 chapters of your life?
How about YOU writing the rest of YOUR novel/life??
Write it how YOU want it to go and make sure YOU are the main character and the hero.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
