WAW told me she idoesn't want to be married.

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let me ask you, has it been working thus far? If not, try something different. DB 101...[/color]
I really don't know if anything is working to be honest. I offer my help only because I don't know what she needs to be done. She asked for help with the teachers presents and my sons presents to us. I told her put it all in a box and drop it at sitters house I would take care of it all. Which she did and I did as well. No hitches. She asked I did.

This past week when she would tell me she was overwhelmed it just breaks me inside cause I know if I paid attention or did things in the past that this would not be like this and I would be with my family. Everyday this week I have asked her how she was doing and if there was anyway for me to help.

more "asking"...Man, this just does Not impress her...(or me). Don't wait for her to accept your offer or to invite you. Just DO things to help and expect nothing in return.
Again more asking cause she has told me in the past she needs to do this and no one else. After I emailed to see if I can help her with anything she wrote back "there is nothing to do I have to do it thats all there is to it. Then talk about gifts from her brother and SIL.
Its her list I don't know what is on it to start helping so I need to ask.
Last week when I brought pizza I got out plates utensils cut it up served her and kids cleaned up and just did. On the way home I stopped for milk and a paper. Again just did.
I have no expectations except a thanks thats all.

[She needs to SEE YOU BEING DIFFERENT, NOT TALKING ABOUT IT...
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hope this helps.]Yes this helps a lot. Whenever I am there or with her I will just do no more thinking.

[I know you are sincere but something's not clicking yet.]
Me man me get fire from rock(basically how I am thinking)

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