Thanks, I will read the links.

My x is hard to get through to. Someone suggested that maybe he suffers from Aspergers Syndrome. I read about it and, it sure sounds like him.

I am sure that he cares about me still but, won't make an effort.While we were married towards the end he told me that he wasn't sure if he loved me or not and, moved into that room.

It has been five years since I left he hasn't made one single call to me not even in beginning.

While in the marriage I had to make all the decisions. Later when people asked him why we divorced he would say cause she wanted it and, that I was just too bossy.

Thanks, for your wise words.