Hi MAL,

I think I remember you from way back (it was a long time ago!). I too left the boards, and, not sure why, but I dropped back in.

Unlike you, my sit hasn’t changed since I first came to DB. It hasn’t worked for me, but like you, I do believe in it anyway.

I think adinva has a point:

Originally Posted By: adinva
11/22 (Thursday - yesterday)
In my opinion, you've put yourself out there and made your case, and now you need to back off the pressure so he can explore the other relationship.


I don’t know if you’re actually putting pressure on him, but he seems to have a lot of feelings to sort out, so I’d kinda lay off the ILY and concentrate on being friends. It all starts with friendship, right?

Just my two cents.


Andy