WHG look at it this way - with what you've learned and worked on you will be able to guide her to a better R with you. You have more clarity about what you need and can ask her for that, and can accept that she has a right not to do that, and you go from there. You won't likely accept a bad relationship in your future.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
