Sorry Ellie. I was feeling icky last night and didn't finish. I know he hasn't seen the lady since she is so far away. I have been with him every weekend in some fashion. But I think he will see her over New Year's. I am going to post the rest of the timeline now, so you can see what has happened since that big R talk.
Me 47 Ex H 46 Bomb 9/02 D final 3/04 Ex H now married to OW
------------ This is surviving. There is no such thing as a normal life, there's just life. So get on with it and enjoy it!